Want a passionate wife? Show her your passion in all things, and she will both expect your passion and share her own in your marriage. My last few posts have been about the girl falling for the “Bad Boy”.  And this guy is never short on  passion. When passion is mentioned, we have many different thoughts. Being guys, sex is always one of the first, and it should be, as God did create sex as a way for us to become one in marriage, and passion should be involved in that, but there are other applications to passion that we should also have.

The “Bad Boy” often shows rage, which is a form of passion. Websters dictionary gives us a few more definitions, and I’m going to focus on the last two it gives:

a: plural : the emotions as distinguished from reason
b : intense, driving, or overmastering feeling or conviction
c : an outbreak of anger

2: ardent affection : love
a : a strong liking or desire for or devotion to some activity, object, or concept
b : sexual desire
c : an object of desire or deep interest

This is what attracts women to the “Bad Boy.” While he shows the strong emotion of rage, she sees the driving intensity in his emotion. She knows that his emotion is a driving force and will push him to desire her as it pushes his rage. This is the psychological reason, she wants someone who will passionately want her, but what about the spiritual reason?

A man who shows passion is not afraid to pursue. God gives  hunger to fill the God-shaped hole in our soul with Him. The “Bad Boy” doesn’t seek to fill that hole with God, and thus is not whole, but what women really want is a man that is whole. The pursuit of filling that hole with God is a passion that women want to see, but they want even more to see the passion for helping others to fill that hole. If you show a passion for the pursuit of God’s Kingdom, a woman feels that you will provide a strong, stable home for her in that pursuit.

Passion for life and love is another aspect that excites women. Just as men want our wives to be wild at times, our wives want to see us with desire burning in our eyes. If we don’t show them passion when we are dating, why should they expect it in marriage. Don’t misunderstand me, I’m not advocating premarital sex, I’m advocating emotional energy, what some call chemistry. Show her passion, let her know that you desire her beside you in life, not just beside you in bed. Show her that a fiery spirit doesn’t just burn under black leather.

Until the Whole World Knows,


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